A connection platform where women discover and unlock men worth meeting, and men are rewarded for showing up, in full. Below: the three surfaces and the journey each user takes through them.
Mobile-first. The locked → unlocked reveal is the hero moment; everything before it earns trust, everything after it keeps the interaction on-platform and safe.
Real, verified profiles. You decide who's worth your time.
By continuing you agree to our Terms & Safety policy.
Warm, premium first impression. 18+ confirmed before anything else.
A quick check keeps Ember safe for everyone. This is never shown on your profile.
Passport or national ID
Confirms it's really you
ID + selfie. Trust & safety is a first-class step, not an afterthought.
Locked previews with attributes, verified & video badges, and the unlock price up front.
"Weekend cyclist, terrible cook, good listener…" unlock to read more
Locked
Full attributes visible; photos, video and bio teased. The sticky unlock CTA is the conversion point.
One payment reveals everything below.
Clear value, one price, wallet or M-Pesa. No surprises before payment.
"Weekend cyclist, terrible cook, good listener. I design buildings by day and lose at chess by night."
The reveal: clear photo, playable video, and two clear ways to connect.
On-platform messaging with a gentle safety nudge and a one-tap path to a call.
Call fee KSh 300 is held in escrow and released to Daniel only after the call happens.
His availability, an escrow explainer, and a single confirm action.
Sat 16 · Java House, Westlands
Confirming release his compensation from escrow.
Confirming the meetup releases escrow; ratings and reporting keep the marketplace honest.
On-the-go surface. Optimised for the camera-first steps (verification, intro video) and quick actions: take a request, confirm you showed up, get paid. The completeness → earnings meter is the motivating throughline.
Next: a quick ID + selfie check. Your camera makes this fastest on mobile.
Fast account creation; KYC leans on the phone camera. Same account works on web.
The signature meter turns "share more" into a visible earnings multiplier as he fills each field.
Women pay to watch this — it's your best earner.
Camera-first capture with guidelines and a moderation-pending state before it goes live.
Fri 7:30 PM · she rated 4.9
Sent a message · 12m ago
Earnings at a glance, profile-health boost prompt, and incoming requests to act on.
4.9 · verified member
Held in escrow · released after the call happens
Who, when, and exactly what he'll earn (base × his multiplier) before he accepts.
Ask Amara for her meetup code and enter it here. This confirms attendance and releases your payment.
On confirm: KSh 390 moves from escrow to your available balance.
Didn't happen? Open a dispute
A one-time code proves the meetup happened — the trigger that releases escrow.
Released vs. escrowed balance, one-tap payout to M-Pesa, and a clear activity trail.
Desktop is where men do the deliberate work: the full registration wizard with a live earnings preview, detailed profile editing, and reading statements before withdrawing. Identical data and rules to mobile — more room to work.
The full form with room to breathe, and a live earnings preview + tier ladder that updates as he adds detail.
Earnings metrics, request triage with inline accept/decline, and the ever-present profile-health nudge.
A full statement — gross, platform fee, his share, and status — with self-service withdrawal.
Web only, role-based. Where ops sets the configurable base rate and tiers, clears the verification and moderation queues, and manages reports, bans, and payouts.
Marketplace health at a glance — members, interactions, revenue vs. commission, and everything queued for action.
The core control: editable base rate, tier multipliers, and interaction weights, with a live payout preview and versioning.
KYC review for both sides — ID + selfie, auto-flags for poor quality, one-click approve or reject.
Report triage with a configurable auto-flag threshold, risk levels, warn/suspend/ban actions, and the content-review queue.